how would you feel if your mum comes up to you and say "you dont have that many friends..." when you're already feeling emo and stressed over a million things?
and not only that, when she says that, she probably means:
- you have no life
- it's time to get a bf
- it's time to go out and socialise more
me: mum i wanna go clubbing with my workmates tonight
mum: that's not very Christian like..
me: but.......i wanna just hang out with them..
mum: very dangerous ar..so late and you'll be all by yourself when you come home
me: ugh..fine...
mum: good.
and if i want to go out at night, but not clubbing, the conversation is like this:
me: mum i'm going out tonight!
mum: oh where to? with who? what time? what time will you be home?
me: erm, just going out with my friends..around 10..dunno what time i'll be home
mum: aiya! so late only what to go out! all the bad things happen at night one you know..
me: yeah i know, but if everyone thinks like you, then no one'll be going out at night
mum: yeah, but what i'm trying to say is, dont go out so late la! dangerous!
me: oh..then ar..ok lor, i stay at home. dont go out....
and if i go out at a usual time, during the day, this is the conversation:
me: mum, i'm going out later..
mum: what you doing? where you going? with who?
me: erm, just going for a bit of shopping with friends..
mum: shopping again! very rich ar?! spend spend spend!!
me: but...i got work and i earn my own money ma!
mum: SO??? you spend a lot you know! keep going out only..petrol all those leh?!
me: erm.......fine la..dont go lor...
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SEE! everything i want to do, she'll say something one! all also against it one. the only time she wont say anything is when i say i'm going to a friend's house. then now she start saying i dont have many friends. how to have friends when everytime i try to go out to socialise you stop me?
i'm so pissed and upset la i tell you. ruin my day only...
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